People (especially girls on dates with me) often laugh about that “pickup artist” they met in the bar, the guy who ran some routines and had an obvious agenda to push buttons.
And I know from experience that stuff works. You push buttons, get a quick rise out of girls, feed your ego. Maybe even get a speedy lay out of it.
What the women in my life miss from those encounters is the slow build of seduction, the man who doesn’t push buttons but is genuinely sexy inside and out. Hell, he barely has to lift a finger to get chicks wet. While that dude is curled up with his lover-to-be in a dark corner, the PUA is still jumping from set to set, gaming HBs and yes, still feeding his ego.
So here it is. I am not a pick-up artist.
And here’s why.
“Pick-up” is only one small part of me. Because I’m a dweeb, I drew this fantastic life-like self-portrait. My arms (C) represent my ability to pick up women (literally and figuratively). I don’t deny I still use many of the tactics and routines I found efficient and effective over the years. They are too habitual now to set them aside. Going out and being “myself” doesn’t work all that well. The game must be played, no doubt about it, and so I do still consider these tools useful.
But look at everything else left over.
(A) is my inner game. My confidence, abundance mentality, humor, perseverance and so on. I am not at all the man I was before the community. I am mentally healthy, I have a much more profound understanding and appreciation of women, myself and social dynamics. All this has contributed greatly to the way I live my life, not simply how I interact with women.
(B) is my heart, my emotions, my love for women. Whether I’m “running game” or just lying in bed with a broad, my heart is over-flowing with awe at the feminine energy. The curves of her hips, her laugh, her willingness to be dominated. My interactions, when they’re at their best, have a huge amount to do with my ease at expressing my emotions in a way that is attractive.
(D) is my core, my gut. This is where I usually feel my energy, and the part of me that communicates with girls at that deeper level. This is the place that lets me calibrate, my instincts regarding how I’m doing with a chick, when to move things forward.
(E) is my Mr. Dandy. Not only my sex drive and desire to seduce, but my balls. A lot of dudes gaming girls leave their balls out of it; they never state their intent, don’t go after the chicks they really want to screw, try to be a friendly, sociable guy instead. Often they don’t even find the girl sexually attractive. I dunno, maybe they just game certain girls to impress their wings or write reports about em. Perhaps they’re simply drawn to the intellectual challenges the game has to offer. Either way, keeping your weiner out of the set is decidedly safe, but not particularly rewarding.
And finally (F) is my lifestyle. It’s everything going on in the background when I’m not with girls. The things I do to improve myself intellectually, physically, sexually. All the stuff that makes me cool. My lifestyle is my legs. Take it away, and I don’t have a leg to stand on. I’m just laying still on the ground, maybe looking up skirts.
(A) is my inner game. My confidence, abundance mentality, humor, perseverance and so on. I am not at all the man I was before the community. I am mentally healthy, I have a much more profound understanding and appreciation of women, myself and social dynamics. All this has contributed greatly to the way I live my life, not simply how I interact with women.
(B) is my heart, my emotions, my love for women. Whether I’m “running game” or just lying in bed with a broad, my heart is over-flowing with awe at the feminine energy. The curves of her hips, her laugh, her willingness to be dominated. My interactions, when they’re at their best, have a huge amount to do with my ease at expressing my emotions in a way that is attractive.
(D) is my core, my gut. This is where I usually feel my energy, and the part of me that communicates with girls at that deeper level. This is the place that lets me calibrate, my instincts regarding how I’m doing with a chick, when to move things forward.
(E) is my Mr. Dandy. Not only my sex drive and desire to seduce, but my balls. A lot of dudes gaming girls leave their balls out of it; they never state their intent, don’t go after the chicks they really want to screw, try to be a friendly, sociable guy instead. Often they don’t even find the girl sexually attractive. I dunno, maybe they just game certain girls to impress their wings or write reports about em. Perhaps they’re simply drawn to the intellectual challenges the game has to offer. Either way, keeping your weiner out of the set is decidedly safe, but not particularly rewarding.
And finally (F) is my lifestyle. It’s everything going on in the background when I’m not with girls. The things I do to improve myself intellectually, physically, sexually. All the stuff that makes me cool. My lifestyle is my legs. Take it away, and I don’t have a leg to stand on. I’m just laying still on the ground, maybe looking up skirts.
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